My kid is cute.

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She also likes apples.

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I’m experimenting with my backdrop (that’s made from PVC pipe and some yardage of black fabric). I need more PVC to make it sturdier before taking it around other peoples’ kids, and I also want some white fabric since my brown-haired daughter tends to get lost in the dark background, especially when I’m only using available light.

Photography

10 days post-illness and I feel like a normal member of society again. It actually took a while to get used to being in public and conversing with humans after such a long hiatus from the plague.

Lily’s 2nd birthday is fast approaching and I’ve prepared by sewing her a Ponyo doll…

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…and taking photos of her…

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And because I’m probably crazy I’m having a go at the photography thing in a slightly more professional setting. We’ll see what comes of it! http://kristygarceauphotography.wordpress.com/

Yucky

Getting sick and healing a tattoo are two very not good things to combine. I managed to take a nice hot bath with my leg propped out of the water, but I feel like I’ve been hit by a bus. The fever that Lily had overnight on Tuesday hit me Friday afternoon and has been striking on and off since. No digestive output like poor Lily who has had at least one gross diaper every day since Tuesday, but I’ve got the gurgly threats of the same. I’m thankful this struck on the weekend so Art can take care of me starting with when he found me shivering under the blankets in bed next to a napping Lily Friday evening and kindly brought me ibuprofen and water. I am so completely done with this. I better wake up feeling better tomorrow.

Inked!

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My brain still hasn’t recovered from the little sleep I got in anticipation, the few calories I consumed for my lack of planning, and the 4 hours of needle-jabbing I experienced this afternoon πŸ˜› But I will say that Hannah Aitchison at Deluxe Tattoo in Chicago is one fine artist! And Art is a saint for hanging out with Lily all afternoon (even handling nap time successfully)!

Off to elevate the ol’ wrapped-up leg some more and enjoy my ibuprofen…

Yarn, food coloring, and a crock pot

I’m in the process of trading my knowledge of magic-loop knitting for some really fine 2-ply wool or alpaca yarn. There’s 150 grams of it, it’s on a cone, and it’s clearly mislabeled, so I honestly have no idea what I’m working with.

So, I decided I might as well dye it! Here’s my process and results…

I had to first wind the yarn from the cone into a hank that I could work with. Then I put the yarn in my crock pot with just enough 50/50 water and vinegar to barely cover it. Then I turned it on high.

After 30 minutes of heating up I added my “dye” (two 1/2 cups of water–one with 10 drops of green and 10 drops of blue, and the other with 12 drops of red and 8 drops of blue).

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I carefully poured each cup onto half of the yarn in the pot, then I popped the cover back on and let it ride out until bed time, which was barely an hour. The water was already clear though, meaning the color had sucked into the fiber, so I wasn’t too worried. After a very careful and thorough rinse I dried it by pressing it between two junk towels (unnecessary, it didn’t bleed any color at all) and then I hung it to dry!

Here it is wound into a cake this morning…

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Looking back I would make sure to arrange the hank more carefully in the crock pot so that all of the yarn was spread evenly in order to allow the dye to get to all the nooks and crannies. I don’t mind the white bits though in this round–adds character!

I’m happy I have a ton more yarn left on the cone, and I’m also happy that this method of dying is SO easy! I’ve already had another go at some random Fisherman’s Wool I had lying around, and the color turned out even more vivid (I used more water and more food coloring, plus I let it soak for longer while heated). Pictures of that yarn to come soon!

I cannot imagine parenting without B(.)(.)BS

Sorry for the B(.)(.)BS up there, but it makes me chuckle. Also, I’m new at this idea of carnival posting, so sorry for the technical errors to my current followers! I’ve decided to have a go at Code Name: Mama’s Carnival of Natural Parenting, and the prompt is “I cannot imagine parenting without _______.”

I would have never, ever imagined, prior to actually being a parent, that this would be my answer to the prompted question. My pre-parent self probably would have said something like “a good car seat” (I do love my Radian) or “my husband who is so helpful” (and he is and I love him to bits), but breastfeeding has forever changed me.

Growing up, I knew I’d breastfeed, much like so many people know how many kids they want when they grow up (a number that still eludes me). My ideas were different then though. I don’t know where my teenage brain came up with the 6 month figure, but it did, and prior to actually considering parenthood that was the magical number that I just *knew* I’d nurse. El. Oh. El.

I’m not sure what I thought happened at 6 months–if babies magically existed on rainbows and unicorn farts or what, but I look back and chuckle at my conviction to do something without having a clue what I was talking about.

Once baby fever struck and we weren’t quite ready to reproduce, I invested a ton of energy into reading about parenting. This is when I learned that “you should breastfeed exclusively up to 6 months, then your baby will eat solids, and you should continue nursing until 1 year.” Of course this became my new mantra on the subject.

Then Lily was born. And at nearly 2 she still nurses not just for thirst, comfort, and sleep, but for nutrition. Real honest to goodness nutrition. Because otherwise I’d swear she really was existing on rainbows and unicorn farts; she has one of those food-is-for-suckers toddler appetites.

Breastfeeding has forever changed me.

In fact, I am now–as of last week–an accredited volunteer with an international non-profit breastfeeding organization where I will lead local meetings and answer phone calls from nursing mothers. (I’m not so sure about coming out with that information, less it becomes something that defines me in my internet presence, hence the not-so-vague-ness there.)

Nursing puts Lily to sleep for naps and overnight. It keeps her asleep when she stirs during naps and overnight. It comforts her when she’s hurt or scared. It satisfies both thirst and hunger when suitable drinks or snacks aren’t around. It’s a running joke in our family to “nom” on her “baby nursh” while she giggles uncontrollably at the irony and the tickles.

It has become a passion of mine to correct misinformation and support mothers seeking help. I’ve even found an area group to volunteer additional time with that organizes conferences and dinners for medical professionals to better their knowledge about breastfeeding by bringing in experts from all over the country.

I went through my teenage years bemoaning my too-small breasts. I complained my way through pregnancy about my aching breasts. And now I sing their praises–for their ability to save my sanity, save the day, save the world!

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Please take time to read the submissions by the other carnival participants:

  • Not Without Him β€” The love Starr at Taking Time shares with her husband is the foundation of her parenting.
  • I Cannot Imagine Parenting Without B(.)(.)bs β€” From an uneducated dreamer to a breastfeeding mother of a toddler, nursing has forever changed Kristy at Strings to Things’s relationship with her daughter and her outlook on life.
  • Raising a Child in the Internet Village β€” When Jenn at Monkey Butt Junction has a question or concern about parenting, she turns to the Internet. What did parents do before Google?
  • Partner in Crime and Parenting β€” Bethy at Bounce Me to the Moon can’t imagine parenting without her husband’s sense of humor – he brings her laughter and love every day.)
  • I Make Milk β€” Patti at Jazzy Mama can’t imagine trying to mother her babies without her breasts, but she could do it if she had to.
  • New Perspectives Bring New Beginnings β€” MJ at Wander Wonder Discover, who is a former authoritarian mamma, has gained perspective via parenting.
  • Time Out! β€” Mrs. Green at Little Green Blog explores how time apart can increase your capacity to give unconditionally.
  • Unimaginable Without Him β€” Kristina at heyred designs is celebrating her amazing partner, without whom none of her parenting experience would be possible.
  • My Parenting Necessity β€” Claire at The Adventures of Lactating Girl needs “me time” in order to be the Mama she wants to be.
  • Babywearing As a Way of Life β€” Darcel at The Mahogany Way talks about the benefits of babywearing in everyday life.
  • Parenting Partnership β€” Sometimes Abbie at Farmer’s Daughter doesn’t appreciate her husband enough, but she definitely couldn’t imagine parenting without his help.
  • Parenting Essentials β€” Momma Jorje loves her parenting products, but she needs you even more.
  • My Parenting Must-Have: Support β€” Joella at Fine and Fair wrote a letter to her daughter about the role that support from friends and family plays in her mothering.
  • It’s More Than Just Hair β€” Think doing hair is full of fluff? Too girly? Useless? Karli from Curly Hairdo Ideas used to think so too.
  • The Minimalist Parent β€” The parents at Living Peacefully with Children embrace a minimalist perspective when it comes to baby gear. A good sling is all they need.
  • Without My Breasts β€” Charise at I Thought I Knew Mama can’t imagine parenting without her breasts; here’s why.
  • Loves Books, Loves People β€” Seonaid at the Practical Dilettante discovers that the library is a perfect fit for her family’s needs.
  • An Ode to the Maya Wrap β€” RevMama’s next child might be named Maya, because of her fondness for the sling.
  • Avoiding the Padded Room β€” Pecky at Benny and Bex is here to testify that it takes a village to raise a child.
  • My parenting essentials, from Tivo to battery-operated monstrosities β€” Lauren at Hobo Mama presents a list of parenting essentials you didn’t even know you needed (and probably don’t…).
  • Attachment Parenting Through Separation: It Makes It a Little Better β€” Jessica at This Is Worthwhile talks about how she couldn’t survive her separation without attachment parenting and the bond it’s afforded her with her 3 year old son.
  • Parenting Essentials β€” Deb Chitwood at Living Montessori Now shares the principles she used to parent her children from infants to adults.
  • My Parenting Essentials β€” The things that are truly essential to Kim at In Desperate Need of Entertainment aren’t things at all.
  • I’m No One Without My Sling β€” How baby carrying is essential to the parenting of Jessica Claire at Crunchy-Chewy Mama.
  • I Cannot Imagine Parenting Without… β€” Isil at Smiling Like Sunshine talks about what she needs to raise her children.
  • February Carnival of Natural Parenting β€” Through her experiences over the last five and a half years, Casey at Love What Is has discovered her most important tool for parenting is using her instincts.
  • CNP: I Cannot Imagine Parenting Without __________. β€” The Artsymama discloses the one thing that gave her back control of herself as a parent.
  • Laugh Until I Cry β€” Laughing with her sons keeps Acacia at Fingerpaint & Superheroes connected and grounded.
  • I Cannot Imagine Parenting Without β€” Luschka at Diary of a First Child realizes what the one thing she can’t imagine parenting without is, and it turns out it’s not a thing after all.
  • It Takes Two β€” Here are a few of the reasons why Jenn at Adventures Down Under cannot imagine parenting without her fabulous husband.
  • Stopping to Listen β€” Though it wasn’t easy at first, Knocked Up – Knocked Over cannot imagine parenting her daughter without listening first to what she is telling her.
  • The Essence of Parenting β€” There are many wonderful resources that make life easier for Michelle at the Parent Vortex to parent, but the essence is the relationship between parent and child.
  • What I Cannot Live Without β€” Sybil at Musings of a Milk Maker considers her computer to be a parenting lifeline.
  • True Blessings: White Noise and Grandparents β€” Kat at Loving {Almost} Every Moment can’t live without her white noise machine and the support of her parents.
  • The Necessities! β€” What “stuff” does a natural parent like Lily, aka Witch Mom really need? Not much, it turns out.
  • Mama Showed Me β€” Mama Mo at Attached at the Nip writes about how parenting wisdom is passed on by example.
  • Ode to the Loo β€” For Joni Rae at Tales of a Kitchen Witch, the bathroom is her safe place, where she can take a minute to calm down if she is feeling touched out.
  • Go, Mama. Go! β€” Andrea!!! at Ella-Bean & Co. has been able to integrate her many roles through her get-up-and-go parenting essential, exercise!
  • My Other Half β€” Becky at Old New Legacy realizes what a relief it is to have her husband parent alongside her.
  • Grace, Love, and Coffee β€” MrsH at Fleeting Moments realizes that lifelines can take the form of the profound, or the mundane. Both are ok.
  • Supportive Spouse, Check! β€” There are so many parenting tools and gadgets that are superfluous, but the one essential, for Danielle at born.in.japan, has been her supportive spouse.
  • Why I’m a Babywearer β€” Meredith at Becoming Mamas reflects on the ways babywearing has enhanced her mama baby relationship…and made life easier to boot.
  • It’s Marvelous Out Here, Kiddo! β€” Rachael at The Variegated Life can’t imagine parenting in the big city without the marvels of Prospect Park to share with her Critter.
  • Yes, Thank You β€” Amy at Anktangle offers tips on how to ask for and accept help, an essential for successful parenting.
  • Parenting Essentials Checklist: Mom’s Inner Rebel and Her Kids’ Voices β€” Olivia at Write About Birth reflects on raising global citizens and saying no to societal norms.
  • Eco-Mama Online! β€” An Eco-Mama living in the mountains of a nature island, Terri at Child of the Nature Isle finds it essential to connect to nature and to connect online.
  • Sorry, We Just Sold the Last One β€” Nev at The Adventures of Lime confesses she missed out the day they handed out patience.
  • Laugh β€” Tashmica at The Mother Flippin’ Blog reveals her super power, her talisman agains mean mommy.
  • My Priceless Parenting Resource β€” What do books, a magazine community, my mother and the local playgroup have in common? Lucy at Dreaming Aloud tells us…
  • The Gift of Shared Time β€” Tree at Mom Grooves strives to experience the world from her daughter’s perspective.
  • Follow the Giggles β€” Dionna at Code Name: Mama can’t live without the sound of her child’s giggles – come watch her video and you’ll agree!
  • Can I Mommy Without Boob? β€” Emily at Crunchy(ish) Mama shares her fears about weaning and losing part of that the mother/child bond.